Many things can make a Monday blue. Mine
was the main story of the seven pm news. While violence has become a regular occurrence
in many of our communities, it is with sadness to take note when the ones
happening in your home town make the prime time news bulletin.
Pic by: Lee Jacobs |
What caught my eye was not only the dog
walking with sunglasses. But during the insert a young man says the youngsters
are throwing stones as they also want job opportunities.
Now I’m not sure if it is a coincidence
but this story featured the same day as Statistician General, Pali Lehohla,
made public the Vulnerable Group Series: The Social Profile of Youth 2009 –2014 report. Based on the report more coloured and black youth in South Africa
are unemployed, involved in crime and uneducated.
In November 2014 I wrote a column Youth need to take responsibility. I allude
to no one being raised to be bad, nor would any parent want their child to use
drugs or become a gangster. And ask myself where did we fail and who is failing
us?
I am strongly of the opinion
that where you come from do not determine your destiny. Also that responsibility
and ownership is not determined by government, but by parents, the youth and
our society at large. It makes me wonder do communities not determine their
identity.
As child we taught what is
right and what is wrong. It should worry us that our youth despise this,
favouring wrong over right. Why it is sad that children hold their seniors
hostage – what happened to one of those tenth commandments to honour your
mother and father. Surely in a community the aunty and uncle you pass is a
mother and father and should be honoured.
I hold no answers. I do know
we will all have to work together to address a challenge. In the column I wrote
that society has the ability to create their identity, by being an active
community – where we not only know our neighbours but where we talk to one
another.
There is no quick remedy for
our challenges, but it starts with me as an individual. Parents are only the vessel
that brings a child into the world. It is still my task as child to be
responsible and take ownership.
Paarl and more specific
Drakenstein hold many potential. It has many success stories, icons and
opportunities. If the story on the news showed me anything, it was an
opportunity for myself and many others that now is the time for youth
development through creating economic opportunities.